4 red flags of an unworthy worshiper - beware the great unwashed
Le sigh. Oh... Le sigh. If only we could allow the great unwashed to become patrons without provoking moral repercussions. Receiving begets influence which necessitates responsibility. And what sorceress wants to be responsible for every suitor willing to cast a string of Tsavorite at her feet? Not I!
Patrons should be accepted based on our faith in their capabilities. Faith that they may grace a worthy Diva with poise and honor. Without ample faith, you're just another derelict dominatrix, callow in the exclusive pursuit of bling, payed bills and shoes. Not my path. My angle is consciousness and creative liberation. We honor the beast and bring it into balance.
As a highly sensitive empath, I've struggled with boundaries and idealism. There were times when I would let any man bow at my feet. I have identified a few red flags of the unworthy worshipers. Divas take heed.
The over-eager
Indiscriminate patrons will never truly delight in the spoils of a true Diva. Easily enamored by the whole mountain, they lack the patience and resolve to suss the coal for the gem. This is the patron who chooses a Diva solely on her looks and/or abuse-style. The patron doesn't consider what the Diva is doing for the world. There's no consideration for intelligence or real talent. These patrons are so overly excited to have found someone who plays to their kinks, they'll swear fealty after only a few engagements. And they usually tailor themselves as the Diva's "ideal" while hiding their filthy, dirty, heedless hands.
The over-eager have their place though. They keep unsophisticated fin-dommes in business and their naive innocence endears them to less seasoned Divas, providing valuable life lessons.
Wise words for the over-eager: If you're going to develop an addiction, make it count.
"She's oh so pretty, but her hands are filthy with indiscrimination." Photo - The Blue Girl, by Anna Volkova. via UFUNK
The supremely uncurious
Dumb-dumbs just don't get it and they never will. Sure, they may be well-healed, willing, and attractive, but if they're stupid, you just can't work with them. Patrons should be capable of peering beyond tribute opportunities into the heart of your true desires. If they can't be socially or culturally perceptive, they should be talented and eager to learn. Curiosity is essential. They should yearn to fathom what makes you so profoundly worthy of worship. Figure out early on if you're dealing with an inbreed, a burnout festi-slut, or worse, a beer-brained frat bro. Be sparing as you feed worship opportunities to new beaus until you can discern their emotional and intelligence quotient.
"Is there anything going on below the surface of that mind of yours?" Collages Digitales by lacabezaenlasnubesMUNDOFLANEUR
The Hum-Drum Irreverent
This is a very complex issue, but simply put: if they disrespect, they aren't worthy. So much energy goes into developing rituals for play. If patrons don't take the time to discipline themselves or follow the rules, they aren't fit to worship.
Tiered opportunities help patrons aspire to higher forms of worship as they testify to their reverence over time. General muggles may also offer tributes and bounty here. If you're interested in becoming one of my Colt-Status Patrons start with a membership. Follow up with an item from this handy little drop down to help secure my blessings and graces and delight in the fruits of my creative genius.
"He's above it all, head in the clouds, slouched and festive, celebrating his narcissim like a glamorous indie-yoyo." Collage by Trash Riot
The Codependent
You might say financial domination, by nature, promotes codependency and you would be absolutely correct. Let's be honest, if you live in America you're codependent in your relationship with capitalism, and plastic, and convenience... it's only natural. But some Americans aren't OK with the destruction of the planet for the sake of our fancy freedom and convenience. Some of us are actually conscious of where we spend our money and liken it to casting a vote for the world we want. There is always a balance to strike and it's a heavy burden if you take it on. Are you investing in loser Divas who can't spend beyond their overblown egos? Just stop, loser. Stop it now!
Most Diva/Patron relationships are based on addiction and most Divas seek to destroy in an effort to make themselves feel more powerful (codependent). There are but a handful of financial dominatrixes in the world who use their funds altruistically. It's also fair to fund your personal aplomb so that you may become more socially influential, but I know plenty of famous rich folk who have no idea how to spend their money. They either lack self-awareness, compassion, taste, or savvy to see beyond the act of spending in and of itself.
I'm not here to destroy my patrons, unlike most Divas. The discipline and self-work required to serve me, ultimately serves my patrons' evolution. I don't sugar-coat the truth. I practice tough-love. Patrons are forced to undergo soul-wrenching initiations. The work is grueling and essential to their creative liberation. If they begin with an addiction, they are forced to bring it into balance. True power stems from compassion - deeply resonant, deliciously influential compassion.
